'Hopelessly In Love' Exposes The Troubles
In The Relationship Of TLC’s Left Eye And Andre Rison (Video)
January 14. 2020
This past weekend I watched the Lifetime network
show “Hopelessly In Love.” Season 1 Episode 1 featured the late Lisa
“Left Eye” Lopes of the girl group TLC and her ex-boyfriend,
professional athlete, Andre Rison. He played American football for
the Atlanta Falcons, among other NFL teams.
Rison, who was a friend of the late rapper Tupac,
met Lisa at an Atlanta night club. At the time TLC had taken off,
but the girls really had very little money, due to the accounting
and contractual practices of Arista/BMG. However, Rison was already
a millionaire.
Andre and Lisa began talking at the night club and
he invited her back to his dream home, a mansion he had recently
purchased in Atlanta’s Country Club of the South. In the
documentary, Rison explained they left the club separately and Lisa
went to where she was staying at the time to collect her things.
Andre stayed Lisa moved into his home the very night she met him and
never left. Andre’s sister, who did not like Lisa, stated the same
in the documentary.
Lisa took a big risk moving in with a man she had
met only hours earlier. It’s not a good idea for women or men to do
that. It was the beginning of a volatile relationship. While the two
really did seem to love each other, they had massive fights and his
family viewed her as a gold digger, who was a threat to his career.
Andre even bought her a brand new Mercedes, so she
would stop driving the used truck she parked in his driveway. Lisa
was definitely living off Andre. She saw him as a quick route to the
luxury lifestyle she saw the owners of LaFace Records living, which
is the label that she was signed to with TLC.
Lisa Lopes and Andre Rison
Prior to Lisa, Andre never experienced bad
publicity. He was only known for his sporting talent. His mother
wanted him to focus on his career and not a woman moving in with
him, whom he was spending a lot of money on.
Andre revealed Lisa had miscarriages while they
were together. The two were also arguing often and sometimes in
public, which ended up in the press in a very negative manner.
During one incident, Andre threatened to shoot two people, who
intervened in an argument he was having with Lisa in a parking lot.
Lisa believed Andre was cheating (and based on
what was said in the documentary he was doing so). Then, Andre
believed Lisa was cheating with rapper Tupac. Lisa denied it but he
never believed her denials. In trying to make him jealous, Lisa
stayed out all night with her friends. However, Andre believing she
was with Tupac, claiming he saw her get in his limo, cheated on her
again. She returned to his home to find him naked in the bedroom
with another woman.
It sparked a terrible argument. They arguments
between the couple grew worse. Due to the suspected cheating and
Andre going shopping for shoes and not buying her anything, Lisa lit
some of Andre’s belongings on fire in a bathtub of his home (the
second time she’d done so in a jealous rage). However, this time Andre had replaced the marble
tub with an acrylic unit, which Lisa did not know when setting the
fire that ended up being the catalyst that engulfed and destroyed
the property this time around. The fire was terrible and in a very
upscale Atlanta neighborhood.
Lisa was arrested and sent to a diversionary
center, which is like a jail, for 3-months. While in the diversion
center she engaged in self-harm, carving the word “hate” on her arm.
Lisa had mental problems due to growing up in a household with a
physically abusive father, who beat her mother. He was also rough on
Lisa and her siblings.
As a teen, Lisa had become obsessed with the
Farrah Fawcett film “the Burning Bed” about a physically abused
wife, who fights her husband back and sets their house on fire. It
was another example of why you should not imitate the dangerous and
unlawful things you see in films. Imitating “the Burning Bed” landed
Lisa behind bars. She was also hit with 5-years probation and a
fine. Not to mention, burning down Rison’s home greatly damaged her
reputation.
After all of the chaos and court appearances,
Andre still took Lisa back. Only for her to move in with Suge
Knight, in the same manner she had moved in with him years prior,
showing up on the label boss' doorstep with her belongings.
In an interview with VLAD TV, one of TLC's music
producers, Dallas Austin, stated the group’s founder and manager,
Pebbles, did not want the girls getting a reputation for sleeping
around in the entertainment industry, because it's difficult for
women in the business. However, that’s exactly what they were doing
and it brought them trouble and heartbreak.
Lisa was in love with Tupac and Andre, attempting
to juggle both men. Chilli was having sex with music producer
Dallas, got pregnant and was kicked out of the group by Pebbles.
Chilli was also cheating with Pebbles husband L.A. Reid, which is
how she was placed in Pebbles’ group in the first place.
Chilli stated she had an abortion due to wanting
to get back into TLC and blamed it all on Pebbles, who did not tell
her to abort her unborn child. However, in the interview with VLAD
TV, Dallas stated Chilli had a miscarriage, due to stress he blamed
on Pebbles kicking her out of the group.
Which one of them is correct. In the TLC
made-for-cable biopic, which resulted in a lawsuit by Pebbles, filed
against VH-1/Viacom over defamation and 15 falsehoods placed in the
film by the group, the movie gave the world the impression Pebbles
pushed Chilli into an abortion. However, Dallas later revealed to
VLAD TV, Pebbles didn’t even know Chilli had a miscarriage.
While TLC member Tionne was not known for being
promiscuous, later dating Jodeci music group member Mr. Dalvin for
years, she had troubles as well. Years later, her marriage to rapper
Mack-10 was a sad one, where she was physically abused by him and it
ended in divorce.
Pebbles and L.A. Reid's marriage also ended in
divorce due to his rampant cheating. Dallas and Chilli broke up,
when she stated he began cheating. She then ended up with singer
Usher, who cheated on her as well. Usher also cheated so much, he
contracted genital herpes and has been sued by several women for
infecting them with it.
In watching “Hopelessly In Love” it was another
reminder of how sad and tragic things were behind the scenes for TLC
and many people associated with them. There were so many problems,
disasters and heartbreaks.
As I've written on this site before, famous
people, particularly famous men, have damaged and or ruined their
lives (and that of others) because they have too many options. All
these women throwing themselves at them, and 99% of the time for
superficial reasons as they're only attracted to their fame and
money, they cheat and lose the one they love, which is sad and so
preventable.
A very revealing September 2019 interview
with music producer, Dallas Austin, where he spilled the tea on
Clive Davis, TLC, L.A. Reid, Pebbles, Babyface, Boyz II Men:
Side Bar:
“Hopelessly in Love” showed that after Lisa Lopes died Andre stated
“my wife is gone” though they were never married. However, he like
so many famous young men cheat on the woman they are in love with,
rather than settling down and getting married.
Some decide to be promiscuous, often listening to
friends encouraging them to be wild. However, years later they have
regrets when they lose the woman they love to another man or as in
Lisa’s case, to the grave. I do think Lisa and Andre were meant to
be, but they blew it with the cheating and fighting. It's happened
to other former couples as well, due to poor decision making, and
often by the man.
In an ironic twist, Andre still in love with Lisa
even after her death, married a woman with the exact same name. They
now have four daughters.
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